Katy and Will met in Oklahoma City while Will was
working for the Texas & Pacific.
They were married on June 18, 1913.
After the marriage Will was transferred first to Dallas, TX, then
to El Paso, TX, where on March 28, 1914, their first child, Edward, was
born. On July 6, 1915,
while still living in El Paso, a daughter, Mary Margaret, was born.
In March of 1917 the family moved to California
where Will went to work as a conductor on the Tonopah and Tidewater
Railroad based in Ludlow. There,
on May 10, 1917, another son, Thomas, was born.
1921 saw the final addition to the family when a daughter,
Katherine Alice, came into the world.
So while Katy managed the ever growing household, Will continued
to work as a conductor on the Tonopah and Tidewater Railroad, traveling
on the route between Ludlow and Death Valley Junction.
On May 20, 1930, tragedy struck the Trenkle family
when Katy was killed in an automobile accident on the road to Barstow,
leaving Will to raise the four children, ages 16, 14, 13, and 9.
Sometime between 1930 and 1932 Will met Helen
Cremins Diffley, a widow with four children.
The exact circumstances of their meeting is unknown, but we do
know that Helen was a friend of Will’s sister, Alice, who lived in San
Pedro, CA. In any event, it
appears that they decided joining the Trenkle and Diffley families
together was the right thing to do, so they married in Los Angeles on
September 5, 1932.
The early years of that marriage were quite a
challenge. The country was
in a depression, and though both Helen and Will were employed, their
places of employment were far separated.
Helen worked for the school system in Inglewood, CA, while
Will’s job was still in Ludlow – the middle of the Mojave Desert.
Since neither could afford to give up their jobs, they spent most
of the year living apart, with Helen coming out to the desert to live
with Will when the schools were on vacation, and Will coming into the
city when he had time off. During
this period the school-age children of both families lived with Helen.
To further complicate matters, at about the time of
Will and Helen’s marriage, the Tonopah and Tidewater Railroad decided
to shut down operations in Ludlow, moving their headquarters to Death
Valley Junction – another 125 miles farther away from Los Angeles. To say Will lived a Spartan existence during this period
would be a gross understatement. His
accommodation in Death Valley Junction (pictured below) was a decommissioned railroad
passenger car that had had it’s wheels removed and was sitting up on
wood blocks. And this in an
area where the summer temperatures frequently hit the 120 degree mark.
In 1941 the Tonopah and Tidewater Railroad ceased
operations and Will switched his allegiance to another desert railroad,
the Trona Railway, based in Trona, CA.
This was a bit closer to town, but not much.
Will continued to work on the Trona Railway until his retirement
in 1946 when he was finally able to set up a permanent household with
Helen at their home at 4331 W. 103rd St. in Inglewood.
But though Will was no longer working for the railroad,
railroading was still in his blood.
All the grandchildren who visited at the Inglewood residence fondly
remember the model railroad Will had set up in the garage, plus Will was
an active member of a local model railroad organization in the Los
Angeles area that operated a much more elaborate layout.
Will and Helen spent the next decade in blissful retirement in
Inglewood, until Helen passed away on May 23, 1955.
About a year later Will met Nellie Mae Curtis, and
they were married in Kingman AZ, on October 18, 1956.
At about this time Will also sold the house in Inglewood, and he
and Nellie bought a home in a mobile home park in Yucaipa, CA.
It was in Yucaipa that Will spent his remaining years.
Nellie Mae passed away in April 1967; Will died on June 20, 1969.
Will is buried in Holy Cross Cemetery in Culver
City, CA. |